Thursday, June 19, 2008

The 'little' party

There were numerous suggestions on the date for our farewell party and a conclusion seemed elusive.Finally,after weeks of speculation and parleys we decided on a date,20th June,2008.
The venue was Sindhoor palace,Kowdiar,TVM.
Time:5.00pm-8.00pm
We invited all the teaching as well as the non teaching staff of the EC department and most of them had agreed to turn up..hmm...
A number counting session ensued and we were keeping our fingers crossed on maximum of 50 students.There were many who had not made up their mind.This really worried us.So we decided to collect a sum of Rs 210/- from each student,and we decided to hand over a souvenir to everyone who attended the function.A DVD that contained all the photos and videos that were taken during our entire stint in college.We made some frantic calls to some guys asking their confirmation for the event.When the number touched 40 we decided to go ahead;come whatever...
June 20,2008.
A sudden turn of events,reinvigorated our spirits.An educational bandh declared by the Kerala Students Union,was a blessing in disguise.The university exam slated for that day was postponed and as result many confirmed their participation.We were mighty relieved,and was looking forward to making this 'little' party,a memorable one.
By,5.30pm,almost all the students had gathered at the venue,and it was time for chit chats.A never ending photo session ensued,with some 'handsome' guys trying to 'muscle' their way into every photo that was clicked.
Everything seemed to be going according to script.But there was a problem.There was no sign of any teaching or non teaching staff we had invited for the function.We ringing up everyone and reminded them of the function.We were glad to know that many were on their way.Finally they arrived,and much to our dismay there were only five of them.Enough was enough and we moved into the hall.

It was time for speeches.The teachers spoke on the transformation that happened to our batch over the years in college.
Now,it was the turn of the students.The onus was on our 'class rep',who made a wonderful speech,and the good work was carried forward by my friend who spoke next.There were some guys who were suggesting,I should speak next.I was not prepared for any speech.My mind was full of numbers...How many??..How much??..I had to give in to the pressure,and i really don't remember what i blabbered.To quote my friend;"sandeepinte election pracharanam(campaign)".Perhaps the fact, that i was seen as the 'last samurai' of KSU,among my classmates coerced me into being a bit political.

It was time for food,and there was the routine chaos associated with any buffet,hosted for students.It was fun for us,but not for the guys who were serving food and desserts.The souvenir was distributed in haste and it was time for us to vacate the hall.I paid the bill(55 students attended) and it seemed a burden was off my shoulder,and heaved a sigh of relief.We bid goodbye to the teachers who attended the function,and all of us stayed on near the parking lot.I wondered;the people who had raised objections on hosting the party in the evening were staying,despite it being so late.Maybe i was missing a point.The 'numbers' perhaps made me 'numb'.There were many around me who were crying,many were at the verge of breaking down,and i realized a bit too late that it was the one last time we all would be together.There were many who were bidding farewell to the city,and i realized,college life had come to a culmination.'Stay in touch','all the best' ruled the roost during the latter phase of our 'little' party,and i returned home after ensuring that almost all of them had left for their homes.
I lay in my bed,with a heavy heart,pondering on how 'big',the 'little' party actually was.......

8 comments:

Anonymous said...

good write up.. but really it was after we came down tat the real thought of seeing many of them for the last time hit.. realised tat even though we dint think so, we wud surely miss college and many ppl there.. the '22' of mimu.. the teasing of R for his bike riding.. afra for her small writing.. sandy for his never coming out attitude.. the small fights.. the CUG meetings under the tree at law college.. ha.. everything seems so far away now..

Unknown said...

muscle thier way into every photo........athu enne udheshichanu ene mathram udheshichannu enne thanne udeshichanu

Sandeep said...

@Gokul..
i meant the 'gym'...:-D

Gokul......................Arun said...

the whole writeup is quite good....i was really touched by the last paras...it surely reminds us of that fantastic night and will be there in the heart of each one of us....

Hari said...

The pangs of leaving the alma-mater is something... Reminds me of the farewell post I'd written in my blog. :-(

Still remember your 'speech' as part of the campaign. Was expecting you to deliver a tirade of accusations against SFI, and was left rather shocked in the end!! Guess you were unprepared and tensed, then.

Btw, I'd voted for YOU in that election! :-)

Sandeep said...

@Hari
To deliver a speech in front of a crowd who are prepared for booing at anything i say;was too tensed..seemed like being caught in alien territory all of a sudden.

Sreehari H said...

dai ividem thudangiyaaaa prachaaranam.evidenkilum avasaram kittiyaa appo 'KSU' ennu paranjollum.


anyways nicely written reminder of the farewell!!

Hari said...

@ sandeep ss:
Never mind, bro!! You had the courage to fight against the mighty SFI right? (<-this statement doesn't mean I'm a KSU supporter. I'm more inclined to SFI! :P) What we act/do is directly related to our state of mind... You messed that up just coz of the tension.

Once again, good post! :)